Seriously, Ask a Black Man
Too often I see some making assertions about how people of color think or feel or talk or their belief systems without actually having queried at least ONE person from the group they’re talking about.
If there is something you absolutely must know, feel free to ask. Be prepared to; a) have your question and answer posted for the world to see, b) be clowned if so deserved, be a recipient of the “Eat a D*ck” award. No anonymous questions answered.